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Moving On
The last several days have been a bit of a whirlwind. Thanks to my uncle's former boss, his cremation has been taken care of, and I'm going to pay him back once the inheritance stuff finishes. There's still *so* much stuff here that needs to be gone through and sorted, sold, donated, or stored away. There's plenty of medical stuff that needs to be donated or otherwise that's taking up the living room right now, and furniture that needs to be scrapped or sold off, including a massive rear-projection TV that my late grandfather got a lot of use out of. Not to mention all the stuff in the garage and shed that came from in the house that needs to be gone through, and all of mine and my mate's stuff that's had to be out in storage all this time.
We've been giving the rest of my family first-pick on a lot of items to get them out of our way and keep them as family herilooms. Also been giving all of the family genealogy stuff to my uncle's brother to keep safe, and old photos and such. The smiles I've been seeing from those gifts have helped out a lot with my own mental health.
Has it been hard? Yeah. I've gone through this several times before, and it never gets easier. That is just a truth of the world.
My world changed drastically just five days ago. Doesn't even feel like 5 days at this point. I lost a lot of my own comfort and safety with my direct family, but my found family has been here to support me, and my extended family and friends have done everything they can as well.
Thankfully, another of our mates is moving back in with us in a couple months, and we can survive until then. Just need to get things cleaned up so they have room to actually move in comfortably. I've been working my butt off where possible, and my mate Sildrae has been dealing with his own problems, but still helps me where he's able. But I'm trying to make sure he focuses on his job and relaxing when he can.
I'm still a writer, but I'm taking a bit of time to secure a nice comfortable spot to work as well. Short term goals leading to long term benefits, and all that. It's also why I'm trying to focus on my career now that I'm able to. I don't expect to be the next Alan Wake or Stephen King or anything, but hey, I can try. A professional social media presence without dips into political talk and the like will help there, and I do wanna dip a toe into vlogging and streaming again. The latter two will depend on the comfy place to work from, though.
Change isn't scary. It's terrifying. At the same time, it also gives hope to hopeless situations, and can bring help to those who need it. So, here's to change, both the good and bad of it, because we need both in our lives, whether we know it or not.