Ah, but the main point of submissive bondage is my enjoying how much my Dom is enjoying doing that to me. If you're only doing it becuase I enjoy it, it defeats the whole purpose.
I suppose, althought personally, I enjoyed it more for the fact that it involved some rather painful cinching, contortions, and other assorted unpleasantness. *wink*
Sheesh. I can multitask beyond just reading a book. Of course, I can also manage my time so that I don't have to multitask beyond what I /want/ to multitask. Which usually sums to 'doing whatever' and reading. Some of us like to keep things simple like that, you know.
Why did you never let me do any of those things to you while we were together?
For that matter, why did you never do any of those things to me while we were together? You're much bigger and stronger than I am. You could have easily made me do anything you wanted...;)
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And since I know there are people here who actually need me to say it, I am NOT talking about yaoi. SPark is definitely lacking in some of the required anatomy for that kind of thing.
Because a.) I was still figureing those kinds of things out at that point in my life, b.) I'm not a Dominant, so I don't do those kinds of things, I get them done to me, usually, and c.) you never showed any interest in them. (This list of reasons being neither complete nor comprehensive, but you probalby get the idea.)
Never showed any interest?? I did everything but ask you outright to try to draw your attention to the subject. However, points a) and b) are more than enough reason, and unless my wife actually succeeds in trying to kill herself it's pretty much a moot point anyway, so...
*chuckles* Ah, you see, /everything/ but ask me. There's the rub. You never /said/ anything, and as any of the guys I've dated can tell you, I pick up hints about as well as a vacuum picks up shoes.
Interesting that I post something and /ask/ for responses and it takes hours to get a dozen. Then I mention yaoi, and *zap!* I get half a dozen in a matter of a minute or two. He he he
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Date: 2003-11-07 10:47 pm (UTC)Look at "Suggestion" 19.
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Date: 2003-11-07 10:58 pm (UTC)That can be arrange, if you really insist...
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Date: 2003-11-07 11:11 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-11-08 12:35 am (UTC)I suppose, althought personally, I enjoyed it more for the fact that it involved some rather painful cinching, contortions, and other assorted unpleasantness. *wink*
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Date: 2003-11-08 12:16 pm (UTC)Also, how exactly are we supposed to take you giving in to Yaoi /without/ dirty-thoughts?
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Date: 2003-11-08 06:52 pm (UTC)Besides... alright, maybe it was dirty, but at least I dind't have to start typing one-handed.
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Date: 2003-11-08 09:22 pm (UTC)But that was because I was reading a book at the time. *grin*
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Date: 2003-11-10 08:37 pm (UTC)Sheesh. I can multitask beyond just reading a book. Of course, I can also manage my time so that I don't have to multitask beyond what I /want/ to multitask. Which usually sums to 'doing whatever' and reading. Some of us like to keep things simple like that, you know.
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Date: 2003-11-09 02:39 am (UTC)So, we're talking "She likes watching boy/boy", and not "She's checking which positions she likes to see most for...future needs". Duly noted.
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Date: 2003-11-07 11:20 pm (UTC)I can only juggle so many males at once though... if I add one more, the whole thing comes falling down around my ears.
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Date: 2003-11-08 09:01 pm (UTC)For that matter, why did you never do any of those things to me while we were together? You're much bigger and stronger than I am. You could have easily made me do anything you wanted...;)
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And since I know there are people here who actually need me to say it, I am NOT talking about yaoi. SPark is definitely lacking in some of the required anatomy for that kind of thing.
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Date: 2003-11-08 09:57 pm (UTC)*shrugs*
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