I am so freaking pissed off right now.
Oct. 26th, 2007 10:07 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
bladesparkI made a comment about somebody who really rubs me the wrong way
It wasn't a really nice comment. It was something I never, ever, ever would have said to her face, and I'm a blunt kind of person, who says things to people's faces! But I was annoyed, and this was a private place to vent, where said person couldn't see it.
Except that one of the people who could see it went and showed it to said person.
And I am PISSED OFF in the extreme. You don't do that! This was somebody else's locked journal post, and the owner of it had specifically said it was a safe place to vent because the person we were griping about couldn't see it. And knowing that we'd been told it was okay, and we could blow off a little steam without hurting anybody's feelings, somebody went and violated the trust of the journal's owner, who had put them on the filter to see it, and went and shared it.
I'm sorry, but in my book that's just not kosher. Not at all. If it really was such a problem, I would have gone to the person I was annoyed with and told her! It has just bugged me a little and I took the chance to get it off my chest. And now I'm having to deal with her being hurt about it, when I didn't want to hurt her, because she is a decent person, she just bugs the heck out of me.
If I find out who violated my, and everybody else's privacy, they are going to seriously regret they did it.
Edit: Well, I found out who did it. And I'm not going to give her a piece of my mind because it turns out she only did it because she hates my guts. In addition to passing secrets, she apparently spent a good bit of last night trying to convince one of my best friends to ditch me. Funny thing, really. I hadn't thought of her since I removed her from my friends list quite a long time ago. I had no idea she was still actively holding a grudge.
It wasn't a really nice comment. It was something I never, ever, ever would have said to her face, and I'm a blunt kind of person, who says things to people's faces! But I was annoyed, and this was a private place to vent, where said person couldn't see it.
Except that one of the people who could see it went and showed it to said person.
And I am PISSED OFF in the extreme. You don't do that! This was somebody else's locked journal post, and the owner of it had specifically said it was a safe place to vent because the person we were griping about couldn't see it. And knowing that we'd been told it was okay, and we could blow off a little steam without hurting anybody's feelings, somebody went and violated the trust of the journal's owner, who had put them on the filter to see it, and went and shared it.
I'm sorry, but in my book that's just not kosher. Not at all. If it really was such a problem, I would have gone to the person I was annoyed with and told her! It has just bugged me a little and I took the chance to get it off my chest. And now I'm having to deal with her being hurt about it, when I didn't want to hurt her, because she is a decent person, she just bugs the heck out of me.
If I find out who violated my, and everybody else's privacy, they are going to seriously regret they did it.
Edit: Well, I found out who did it. And I'm not going to give her a piece of my mind because it turns out she only did it because she hates my guts. In addition to passing secrets, she apparently spent a good bit of last night trying to convince one of my best friends to ditch me. Funny thing, really. I hadn't thought of her since I removed her from my friends list quite a long time ago. I had no idea she was still actively holding a grudge.
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Date: 2007-10-26 07:23 pm (UTC)I had someone do that with my posts and showed them to the loathesome ex. Suffice to say, i have very little tolerance for that sort of bullshit.
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Date: 2007-10-26 09:19 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-10-26 10:37 pm (UTC)Granted, my journal is actually pretty blah. I don't bitch at or about people often there. I see that more as being because I'm an easygoing guy, though, than because I'm afraid to bitch in public.
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Date: 2007-10-27 02:46 pm (UTC)