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What is a nemesis? Well, it's an arch enemy. It's a person you regularly clash with. It is, in many cases, somebody you can't stand one bit, but respect all the same.

Which pretty much sums up my relationship with [livejournal.com profile] grrrowly. I can't stand her, she drive me crazy, she rubs me the wrong way and annoys the heck out of me. She's rude and scarcastic and critical of others, doesn't take criticism of herself well, and gets into arguments easily, and wants to have the last word a lot. Which, if you think about it, sounds rather familiar, because I do all the same things! (I just tend to do them on my journal, in private, while she does them out in communities.) Anyhow, we've had quite a few clashes now, and we snark and snipe at each other every so often. But all the same I respect her a lot. She hasn't done any hypocritical, weasely, dishonest stuff that loses my respect. I just can't stand her, that's all!

Sounds like a nemesis to me!

Date: 2007-10-27 05:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] harliquinnraver.livejournal.com
*laughs*

i hear that. but i dont respect mine. i wont respect anyone who doesnt respect me XD

Date: 2007-10-27 05:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bladespark.livejournal.com
Who's your nemesis then?

Date: 2007-10-27 05:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] harliquinnraver.livejournal.com
XD i have a fewwwwww

Date: 2007-10-27 05:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] harliquinnraver.livejournal.com
they love to hate me and i love to not giving a flying a fart what they think XD

Date: 2007-10-27 05:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bladespark.livejournal.com
Ah yes. I could probably name some then.

Date: 2007-10-27 05:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] harliquinnraver.livejournal.com
duke, ken, trixi, romani, anjel, hmmmmm i feel like im forgetting someone. *ponders*

Date: 2007-10-27 05:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bladespark.livejournal.com
Romani's still pissed at you? Sheesh!

Date: 2007-10-27 05:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] harliquinnraver.livejournal.com
oh jeez, hell yeah he is. which is funny because if anything, I should be pissed at HIM! XD

Date: 2007-10-27 06:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bladespark.livejournal.com
No kidding.

Though I almost feel sorry for him, he's trying to get a fursuit head from somebody, and she lives in Southern California and had to leave it behind when she was evacuated.

Date: 2007-10-27 06:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] harliquinnraver.livejournal.com
i dont feel the least bit sorry for him. at all. im sure hes talking shit on her because of that too. because he honestly cares for no one but himself.

Date: 2007-10-27 06:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bladespark.livejournal.com
Well, he felt the need to whine about it on my forum. She hasn't said anything, of course, because I doubt she's bothering to check forums right now!

Date: 2007-10-27 06:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] harliquinnraver.livejournal.com
id love a link. no drama from me :)

Date: 2007-10-27 06:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bladespark.livejournal.com
http://www.80scartoons.net/fursuitforum/viewtopic.php?t=1167

Date: 2007-10-27 06:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] harliquinnraver.livejournal.com
WAH! I NEED MY HEAD NOWWWWWWWWW

Date: 2007-10-27 06:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bladespark.livejournal.com
Yeah. He's not exactly terribly mature.

Date: 2007-10-27 07:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] harliquinnraver.livejournal.com
and hes OLD too. like, old, bald, very much an adult but still lives with his ancient as hell mother.

Date: 2007-10-27 07:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bladespark.livejournal.com
O.o I thought he was like 20. Seriously?

Date: 2007-10-27 07:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] harliquinnraver.livejournal.com
oh hell yeah. D: hes old.

Date: 2007-10-27 07:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bladespark.livejournal.com
Ooooooooooooooooooooooooookay. Peter Pan syndrome there!

Date: 2007-10-27 05:51 am (UTC)
silveradept: A kodama with a trombone. The trombone is playing music, even though it is held in a rest position (Default)
From: [personal profile] silveradept
Will this rivalry grow into a proper sort of relationship between antagonists, where both sides fight and strike each other's plans, but in the end, leave a loophole to escape and continue the fight later on?

Date: 2007-10-27 06:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bladespark.livejournal.com
It could. But it will probably just stay at the level of occasional sarcastic comments.

Date: 2007-10-27 06:26 am (UTC)
silveradept: A kodama with a trombone. The trombone is playing music, even though it is held in a rest position (Default)
From: [personal profile] silveradept
Well, mid-bosses are an essential component to one's adventure, as well.

Date: 2007-10-27 06:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bladespark.livejournal.com
*chuckles* Indeed.

Date: 2007-10-27 06:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] catwoman69y2k.livejournal.com
It sounds like that is possible. Although if you really dont care for her behavior and you end up changing how you react to this, it is possible not to have a nemesis . I suppose it is up to you though. Just know that you have the power to change that.

Kat

Date: 2007-10-27 06:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bladespark.livejournal.com
...I have no idea what you're saying here. I am happy about this. I'm not complaining. I kind of like Growly, I just can't be in the same room with her, that's all. It's interesting, entertaining, and funny to have a benign nemesis. This isn't something I need to be "empowered" about, I'm quite in charge of my reaction to this situation right now.

Date: 2007-10-27 03:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] catwoman69y2k.livejournal.com
Ah okay

I guess its just that all too often I have seen simple healthy competiton with a nemesis transform into something a bit more ugly. I think that is where a lot of the drama can start with people. Thats what I meant by you have the power to change things since I know that you do not like drama so much. Healthy competition = fun ; silly I'm better than you drama = none.

Kat

Date: 2007-10-27 11:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] moltare.livejournal.com
Start practicing your "CURSE YOUUUUUUUU" with shaken fist, then.

I'll be giving out marks later.

Date: 2007-10-27 04:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jtbeckett.livejournal.com
that's funny... i have both of you on my friends list, and i enjoy reading both of you... (though i tend to skip over tmi posts... even though i like to be included for some odd reason)

Date: 2007-10-28 03:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bladespark.livejournal.com
It really is the weirdest thing, because in abstract I rather like her, but any time I actually encounter her on the internet, we end up fighting.

Date: 2007-10-27 07:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] baloo-ursidae.livejournal.com
Heh, I like [livejournal.com profile] grrrowly! Bears are always good! :o)

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