I am so freaking pissed off right now.

I made a comment about somebody who really rubs me the wrong way

It wasn't a really nice comment. It was something I never, ever, ever would have said to her face, and I'm a blunt kind of person, who says things to people's faces! But I was annoyed, and this was a private place to vent, where said person couldn't see it.

Except that one of the people who could see it went and showed it to said person.

And I am PISSED OFF in the extreme. You don't do that! This was somebody else's locked journal post, and the owner of it had specifically said it was a safe place to vent because the person we were griping about couldn't see it. And knowing that we'd been told it was okay, and we could blow off a little steam without hurting anybody's feelings, somebody went and violated the trust of the journal's owner, who had put them on the filter to see it, and went and shared it.

I'm sorry, but in my book that's just not kosher. Not at all. If it really was such a problem, I would have gone to the person I was annoyed with and told her! It has just bugged me a little and I took the chance to get it off my chest. And now I'm having to deal with her being hurt about it, when I didn't want to hurt her, because she is a decent person, she just bugs the heck out of me.

If I find out who violated my, and everybody else's privacy, they are going to seriously regret they did it.

Edit: Well, I found out who did it. And I'm not going to give her a piece of my mind because it turns out she only did it because she hates my guts. In addition to passing secrets, she apparently spent a good bit of last night trying to convince one of my best friends to ditch me. Funny thing, really. I hadn't thought of her since I removed her from my friends list quite a long time ago. I had no idea she was still actively holding a grudge.

I have a nemesis!

What is a nemesis? Well, it's an arch enemy. It's a person you regularly clash with. It is, in many cases, somebody you can't stand one bit, but respect all the same.

Which pretty much sums up my relationship with grrrowly. I can't stand her, she drive me crazy, she rubs me the wrong way and annoys the heck out of me. She's rude and scarcastic and critical of others, doesn't take criticism of herself well, and gets into arguments easily, and wants to have the last word a lot. Which, if you think about it, sounds rather familiar, because I do all the same things! (I just tend to do them on my journal, in private, while she does them out in communities.) Anyhow, we've had quite a few clashes now, and we snark and snipe at each other every so often. But all the same I respect her a lot. She hasn't done any hypocritical, weasely, dishonest stuff that loses my respect. I just can't stand her, that's all!

Sounds like a nemesis to me!

ARGH

For the third time this week livejournal has suddenly stopped sending me comment notifications.

If you've said anything to me recently, particularly in your journal, or a community, and I haven't responded, and you'd like a response, point me at it, please, because I may not have seen it. I'm keeping up okay on comments in my own journal, I think. Unless you've left something on an older entry...

Stupid livejournal.